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What is the difference between an Intellectual Decision to Change and a Real Change?

Most people are not aware of the difference between an Intellectual Decision to change and a Real Change.

They say: “I don’t have time for people who don’t have time for me. I will never again date a guy like this. I will always put myself first. “

A lady told me. I decided I don’t want to date guys like this anymore. Whenever I meet such a guy, I recognize the pattern, and I go away.

She was very proud and happy about her change.

I understand. And I was happy for her. But.

This is the only first step to a change. And unfortunately, most of the people stay at that level.

If, after deciding that you want to put yourself first, you still meet people that don’t treat you right, you made only an intellectual decision.

You changed your way of thinking, your values, and you follow that. You stand by your decision and even defend it verbally. You tell people they can’t treat you that way.

All this is good, and congratulation on your accomplishment. But.

Your decision is only intellectual. You didn’t change your vibration yet!

You didn’t change your vibration because you don’t know how to change it; you don’t know how to change your mindset, your inner subconscious programming, your energy. Maybe you need help with that, and I can help you.

When you really change your vibration, not just decide intellectually, you meet no more people who wouldn’t treat you right. You meet no more strange guys.

To realize that something is wrong in your life when things happen is a great step. But when you change your vibration, such things shouldn’t happen anymore.

You don’t need to say I don’t have time for people who don’t like me because there are no such people in your life anymore.

When you make a Real Change, you change your vibration, and the world around you changes accordingly.

If you still need to say things, if you still notice things that are not right, if you still need to defend yourself, you need to know that you are on the way, but you are not yet there. There is still work to do.

When you make a Real Change, you change your vibration, and the world around you changes accordingly.

And, maybe today is a great day to start.

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