A Lady wrote to me: “Miran, I am so grateful. Since I started reading your articles, and following you, the relationship with my partner changed. We talk more, go for a walk, and are doing activities together.”
This is great, and I am grateful that I could help. But. There is something that we need to know.
If we want to change our relationship, it is not enough only to change our activities, but also our thinking and vision about the relationship.
It was our vision, precisely our lack of vision, that caused my partner and me to become distant, to lose connection and sparks.
If we change only activities, we will stop doing them after a while. It happened to us already some years ago, and we lost each other.
We need to change our thinking and vision about a relationship, and activities will automatically follow!